For Single Men Searching

You should only get involved if you are strong enough to enjoy entrancing magic "love spells" from the most beautiful women on Earth!

Most of these women are conservative respectable ladies, well educated and cultured. Treat them with respect and get respect in return. When they say, "I want a real man" they mean "I want a man who is responsible, will be faithful in marriage, and raise a family faithfully." Men who open a dialogue respectfully with proper manners get what they want. Louts spend their lives alone and deservedly so.

Unfortunately (for them) many Russian/Ukrainian men think to be "masculine" they have to destroy themselves with drugs and alcohol and treat women disgracefully, or they want to live together but won't make a marriage commitment. They are also reputed to rule their home with an iron fist.

An American man who treats his wife as his best friend, showing respect for her intelligence, opinions and desires, and is willing to compromise about many little things thereby creating a truly loving relationship, will have a wonderful marriage. She's always going to try to do things for you. Ask what you can do to be helpful to her!

Many of these women are not wealthy. They, per force, are 90% vegetarians which explains why they're slim and stay youthful longer. It's up to you if you decide to help her with a little money after you get to know her well through a few letters. Many people there earn $100/month or a bit better. If you truly care about her and want to be helpful a small amount of money monthly through Xoom.com would make a huge difference, and these days with the costs of food and fuel rising, it could save lives!

A man who is perhaps 20-years older and willing to help with some support money can win a woman's heart and loyalty for life. I know this because I've done it! Rescuing someone is never forgotten.

Never question a Ukrainian woman's decision. If she says she loves you, don't contradict her by repeatedly asking if you're too old or not good looking enough. She has made her decision. It's final! Be thankful, smile, study to speak the language and go meet her.

It's nearly impossible to find a course in Ukrainian but the linguistic roots are close and most people speak both languages. If you learn Russian and live there a while the Ukrainian vocabulary will filter in. You'll learn Ukrainian without realizing you're doing so.

I don't care what travel guides may say; Go to meet and spend a lot of time with ONE woman. You won't accomplish anything shaking hands with 100 women. How would you feel if a woman came here and said she was going to bedroom test 20-men and then make her decision? Meet one. Treat her as a lady should be treated and you'll probably find the love you're seeking. If I'm wrong, you can look at your favorites list, make a few phone calls then invite someone else to lunch.

If you're going attempt to arrange your life so you can spend a longer period of time. Fortunately you can say many things to one another in letters that you might not dare to ask or answer face to face. That compresses the dating process considerably and once you both understand one another's views on many things the rest becomes easier upon meeting.

No one is perfect. No one is sin free. We've all made mistakes. Some women had children because they desperately wanted a child, and some were abused. I recommend you ask no questions and just be forgiving. She's here. The child is here. There's nothing you can do to change that. Accept it and help make a complete "nuclear family." Any man kind enough to accept a child and make a new life for a good woman will be received by family and friends as honored and valued.

The Ukrainian word for Family is the same word as Marriage. When they say, "I want a family" they are saying, "I want a stable marriage." It's all the same for them and may or may not include children. However, most Ukrainian women feel their purpose in life is to raise children and they are unfulfilled as women if they don't do so, just as we men might feel our life was unfulfilled as a man if we had never made love to a woman.

I recommend that you run a search for single women with children. Many of them are shockingly beautiful and slim. They yearn for a man to love and help complete the family unit, and they struggle to survive.

questions will be looked upon as a gift from God, and God will look upon you as having done a holy work. He will bless your marriage, I promise you this! For more about how to have a great relationship see our Love Course which is still expanding with more lessons about psychology and marriage counseling.

Seriously consider making your home there. Everyone does not yearn to move to the US. Moving a woman to the US might be quite a culture shock, and you can live less expensively in Ukraine. Any streams of income you may have will take you much further there. The land is cleaner and beautiful, and the farms are the most fertile in the world. Actually, you'll have greater personal freedom in Ukraine than you will in the US which is rapidly becoming a police state. A great many wealthy families are emigrating OUT of the USA permanently as they see the future and discuss it among one another and in some financial news letters. For a man who appreciates "living in the nature," being self-reliant on a small farm where government won't intrude into his life, Ukraine is one of the best places to be!

I fancy myself as a connoisseur of beautiful faces. The reason the people of Ukraine are so beautiful is that their ancestors have been willing or unwilling hosts to various trading partners and armies crossing their land reaching into ancient history. Along the way someone sees a stranger and get's connected (willingly or not.)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_Ukraine

Settlement in Ukraine by members of the homo genus has been documented into distant prehistory. The Neanderthals are associated with the Molodova archaeological sites (43,000-45,000 BC) which include a mammoth bone dwelling.^[4][5] Gravettian settlements dating to 32,000 BCE have been unearthed and studied in the Buran-Kaya cave site of the Crimean Mountains.^[6][7] The late Neolithic Cucuteni-Trypillian Culture flourished from about 4500–3000 BC.^[8] The Copper Agepeople of the Cucuteni-Trypillian Culture resided in the western part, and the Sredny Stog Culture further east, succeeded by the early Bronze Age Yamna ("Kurgan") culture of the steppes, and by the Catacomb culture in the 3rd millennium BC.

Actually we can trace humankind back 100,000 years and I wouldn’t be surprised if many lived in this area even then. These people are as close to being a genetic homogenous mix as any you can find.

If you’re inclined to seek a Jewish wife you can look up on line for Jewish Synagogues in Odessa and find several.

As things are changing sociologically these days many Jewish women might be very happy to marry and leave the country with you. Many of them say they are “Orthodox” and looking at their faces I want to ask, “Orthodox what?”

Remember, these ladies are comfortable marrying an older man, and some want the stability and wisdom older men can offer.

The ladies you see on the websites are those who are employed and able to afford fine clothes, photographs, and computer time. There are tens of thousands who don't have such privileges and opportunities. Think about that before you visit. There's a field of diamonds outside your door if you go looking for it.

Ask an American woman what she wants and you might hear thoughtless words. Ask this one and she says:

Character

I am caring, understanding, optimistic, loving, supportive and very kind hearted woman.

Interests

I am fond of reading, in my spare time I like to have a walk in the open air, to spend pleasant time with my friends.

Her Type of Man

I am looking for a man who can be my best and most devoted friend, whom I can trust completely and whom I can rely on in everything. He must be attentive, intelligent, reliable, just like me but it would also be great if he is humorous enough as well. The most important thing is that he should appreciate me and take care about me and that he is ready to create a family. I will do my best to make my future husband happy! (preferable age: from 30 to 60).1668854

There are business opportunities there. You'll find excellent craftsmen. I have a yacht designer friend who says some of the Eastern European steel boat builders turn out works of art. What do you want to manufacture? What could you do to improve your life and the lives of the local community?

Ukrainian and Russian people are “our family.” Their people are all over New York City and up and down the East Coast. Their grand parents busted the sod of the Great Plains states and grew the wheat they brought with them from “the old country.” Many of those tall attractive models and entertainers may have Russian/Ukrainian relatives.

Not all are conservative moralists these days. But over all I think it’s reasonable to say, I don’t think you can go anywhere else and find better women than you can in Ukraine. That’s the reason to “chase” them. They're not dreaming of marriage and divorce in five years. They're dreaming of marriage for life! You’ll still find women in Ukraine who believe in marriage forever, loyalty and decency in marriage, and strong family relationships.

For many, their tears wet their pillow at night praying for this desire most close to their heart. Don't assume you're not good enough and leave some beautiful woman single any longer. Do her and yourself a favor. Write a few letters, and get acquainted. Start Now.

This is a buffoon’s paradise. Russian does not use articles like “the.” When Russian speakers translate they are confused and we read, “I like to take active rest in the nature.” Which means, “I like to take a vacation or my day off walking or camping in the woods.”

English; “I don’t want any” comes out in Russian as “I don’t want!” which sounds abrupt but it is not intended to be ill mannered.

They’re likely to say “no” instead of “no thank you” or “certainly not!” instead of something a bit softer like “no I don’t think so.”

English, “Come to my house” translates to “Come At me,” or perhaps it is "Come by me." I think we get from this the Yiddish into English translation "So, how's by you?"

If you ask a woman in the USA to go to dinner with you she’s likely to say, “yeah, great or just Okay.” In Russia she’s likely to say, “Yes, with pleasure," which sounds much more graceful than "yeah."

If you ask your Russian lady friend, “Are you hungry? Shall we have lunch?” She’ll likely say “no” when she really means “yes” and you’re expected to prod her again after a few moments or tell her, “I want to stop for lunch, so please come with me.”

The reason for this give and take is that she doesn’t want to seem too eager or greedy, but on the other hand if you take her word for it and assume she really is not hungry she’ll think you’re stingy!

I truly believe the ONLY way to learn a language after the classes is immerse yourself in it. Watch TV games in Russian. Read Russian websites. Listen to Russian in movies and on Radio. You'll realize language is more than words, it's rhythm and intonations. You pick it up by listening and eventually becoming part of the activity.

There’s a true story about a bunch of college students studying French. They took a summer vacation in France. ONE girl immersed herself in French. She had conversation with gardener daily, she listened to people at other tables in the coffee shop and learned about 100 most commonly used phrases. Mean time her friends spoke English amongst themselves. When the summer vacation had ended she spoke fluent French, the rest of the group had learned nothing.

I have a man friend from Colombia living in the U.S. After 25-years and hours of study he still can barely speak English. When he is not working he reads Spanish newspapers, listens to Spanish music, watches Spanish language soccer games. Sometimes he has all of these things going at once. He might be on the phone speaking Spanish with all of this in the background. He’s soaking up Spanish from three or four sources at the same time. No wonder he still barely speaks English!

The linguistic differences between English and Russian or Ukrainian sometimes make it seem as if someone is insulting you and they really don’t intend that. I thought on a couple of occasions some woman had told me she had no interest in me and that's not what she intended to say at all. I'm afraid it caused some disappointment for both of us.

Do NOT try to translate through Babblefish or some such on-line translator. These translation computer programs can make a laughable mess of language.

I recommend to you most strongly to make use of the translation services through Anastasia Date.com or RussianBrides.com and even offer to pay more for longer letters. They’ll work something out with you. It’s certainly worth the price. And I also recommend that after 5 or 8 letters, offer to send the lady money to cover her communication expenses. She’ll be impressed! Remember, for her this is hard work and expensive. For you, it might be pocket change. YOU have a computer on your desk. She might have to take a long trip, when she can make the time to get to an Internet cafe, or dating service office.

Don't be put off by the cultural and linguistic differences. This "project" of meeting and loving a woman from another country makes the entire romance experience such a grand adventure and so much more interesting.

Just imagine what your friends will say if you send them email that says, "I'm living now in The Russian Federation," or "My wife and I swim on the beach of Odessa."

Again, do the best you can to learn to speak some Russian because when you get there you may find it a bit awkward to shower with your new girlfriend and have a translator present. ;-)

I find the study a lot of fun, really. It will do you no harm to speak Russian and you may find it is beneficial for business and love. As politics are these days, it may be your life saver!